Tuesday, 17 April 2012

Five great reasons to hire an au pair!

In today’s modern world Au Pairs are becoming more and more popular. There are a hundred and one reasons to hire an au pair and bring them into your home but this article will tell you about the five that are the most compelling and beneficial to anybody thinking about hiring an au pair.

Affordable childcare
Au pairs are a lot more affordable than people generally believe. The ongoing costs of having an au pair in your home are incredibly low, especially considering the benefits you will gain from the experience. They are much more than a mere babysitter, but the savings in childcare costs alone more than justify the decision.

Experience different cultures
Au pairs are in this country for often manifold reasons. One of the most prevalent of which is the opportunity to improve their language skills. Whilst their interaction with an Irish or British family helps them to improve their English they also help to educate family members, young and old in the culture and language of their home: generally creating a mutually beneficial and exciting environment of learning.  Above all the experience is not only educational for all but also fun!

Schedule planning
With the help of an au pair you as a mother or father will be able to plan your weeks with much more accuracy, flexibility and freedom, as your au pair will generally, upon agreement with yourself make him or herself available to collect your children from school, take them to after school activities and many more activities as you see fit allowing you greater freedom to plan in time for yourself. Not only does an au pair enrich family life, but also allows you and your other half to escape the house a night or two a week for some quality time, safe in the knowledge that the little ones are safe and happy.

Help with the house work
This isn’t a written rule but the more you offer out to an au pair the more you will get in return.  In return for their weekly fee au pairs are generally expected to help out with household chores.  Not to be mistaken for a servant au pairs will help out with household chores (but obviously, not do all of them on their own).  Running round after children and managing all of the household duties can be a tiring job so having even a little bit of help in this area could be a great time saver. An au pair can serve as that ‘extra pair of hands’ busy parents are often in much need of, especially during those particularly stressful times!

In home care
When your children are sent to a registered child minder you are generally at their mercy with regard to location and methods of entertainment, interaction and discipline, as such limiting your control with regard to how your child is looked after.  By hiring an au pair you can be safe in the knowledge that your children are being looked after in a familiar environment (your family home) and have greater control of the activities they undertake during the day. It is more like having the children looked after by an honorary family member, who will take on board house rules and personal childcare preferences. 

Besides these benefits and the numerous others you receive by inviting an au pair into your home, you are also making a great difference to your au pair.  In return for assisting yourself and your family in all manner of daily chores, activities and events, they are learning a new language, culture and way of life…which is after all the reason they have left their home country to become an au pair.  In short, everyone benefits!

Monday, 16 April 2012

Anna's Au Pairing Experience

Here is a story from one of our au pairs and her experience in Dublin, Ireland last summer.

Hello Kangaroos! :)

I am sending you my success story.
As my first full year of being an au-pair in Ireland was coming to an end, I knew that I don’t want to go home yet. That’s why I started looking for a new family for the next and final year. I spent hours on the internet until I finally found a family in Dublin.  We really “clicked” in the emails. The only problem was that I had to leave my current hostfamily in June, because they had another girl coming. This Dublin family needed someone to start in September.  That meant that I have to find somewhere to stay for the three months. I was lucky and found a family with four boys in Kilkenny, they needed an aupair just for the summer time and were fine with the fact that I will leave in September.  Summer in Kilkenny was wonderful and if you ever come to Ireland, the Kilkenny castle is a must-see for you.  Nothing but one thing could ruin my summer -the Dublin family sent me an email saying that their aupair decided to stay longer so they won’t need me.

And there I was, back in the cold waters of the internet. I don’t know how, I don’t know where it came from, but all of the sudden I saw a little kangaroo smiling at me from my computer screen. I didn’t know this website, but I decided to give it a try. And it was a good decision I must say. It didn’t last long until I found a message from Bettina.  They had one baby to look after and lived in Cork city. I replied to her message and not so long after that we met in person.  And because we both had a good feeling about each other, by the end of October I was already moving to Cork.

I was really nicely surprised that they came all the way to Kilkenny to collect me so I didn’t have to carry all my bags on the bus. I got a lovely room and my very own bathroom.

It’s been four months since I started in this family and I can’t complain at all. I met lots of new people and made some really great friends. I even found a boyfriend here! Me and my hostparents became really good friends and baby Aileen is like my little sister.  We have loads of fun together.  We often go to the ZOO or just down to the shopping centre for a smoothie. I wouldn’t change my hostfamily for the world.

If you are considering becoming an aupair, don’t hesitate.  It’s a great experience that you’ll remember forever. You’ll meet new people from all around the world (Ireland is full of aupairs!) and you will see new places and learn the language as a bonus.  Don’t be afraid and don’t wait for tomorrow. I am sure that the perfect hostfamily is waiting for you right here.  Good luck!

Thanks a lot for being on the internet, without you I wouldn’t find this family and I wouldn’t start my life over :)

Anna

Czech aupair Anna, 23